Are You On The Love Field - Or On the Battle Field in Your Relationship?
Do you feel as if every interaction with your partner is a struggle?
You're constantly at odds with each other, and every conversation feels like a battle you have to win…..
Maybe you’re both defensive and reactive, and you're not able to truly listen to each other.
When you think about your relationship “vibe” - what is it like? Is it Manila characterised by pain and suffering? Or is it filled with joy and happiness?
If you find yourself more in the places of not feeling safe, of not feeling connected or lacking trust….or maybe you feel disrespected or not appreciated…or just a general lack of willingness to make the relationship work…
Then…you may be at war.
Instead of being on the Love Field - the place you are innately meant to be - You may have entered the Battle Field of your relationship…
If you close your eyes, and see your relationship through the lense of what your are feeling - you may find it's a warzone.
The ground is muddy, the air is thick with tension and anger, and the sky is dark and foreboding. Everything seems broken, dark, damp, black and brown and grey.
You feel like you're constantly under attack, and every move you make is met with resistance. You may feel tired, stressed, and anxious - and the future seems uncertain and bleak.
Our willingness and capacity to FIGHT can be awesome, it can be liberating and it can be very useful in many situations. Like fighting for a better world. Fighting the dark powers and the evil.
But in a relationship…you want to be on the LOVE Field, EVEN when there is tension. EVEN when you may instinctively feel you are RIGHT - you still want to go back to the love field.
The fighting spirit is your masculine energy. Your Masculine Energy will (most often) not help you in a romantic situation with a man…even if that situation is tense and filled with unresolved conflict.
So take a moment now and imagine what it would feel like to be on the Love Field even during those moments of total despair.
When I envision this, I can see myself in a wonderful field filled with Poppies and Peonies. A field of gold and green. It’s like you're in a beautiful garden filled with lush greenery, colourful flowers, and a totally serene atmosphere.
The sun is caressing me, and I walk smiling with my dress flowing around my body. Picking flowers.
You feel safe, secure, and loved. The air is filled with laughter, joy, and contentment. Every step you take feels light and effortless, and the path ahead is clear and smooth.
When you're on the "love field," you and your partner are in sync.
You're working together towards a common goal, and every action you take is guided by love and understanding.
You communicate openly and honestly, and you're able to navigate any challenges that come your way with grace and ease.
You're both focused on building each other up, rather than tearing each other down, and you're able to create a deep and meaningful connection that lasts a lifetime….
And it IS possible. You have so much power in your Feminine Energy. In the way you can LEARN to listen, to Receive, to be Grateful, and to say “Thank you”.
Feminine Energy helps you stay TRUE to yourself. It helps you stay in touch with your heart, so that you can express your emotions in a way that helps you stay on the "love field"!!
So the next time you find yourself on the battle field - ask yourself: “what does it take for me to go back to the Love Field? Can I enter this tense or difficult situation while remaining on the Love Field?”
When you choose love over fear, understanding over judgments…and really walk yourself BACK to the Love Field…feeling the sun, touching the flowers, drinking the wonderful colours and smells of the flowers…
…then you may start to see the best in your partner. Even when things get tough.
And you will be able to inspire HIM to step out his armouring and instead walk with you out on the Love Field.
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In the Love Transformation Program we go SO much deeper with this. New ways of relating, new ways of communicating. Ways that can truly inspire your man - IF he is able to love.
You are the creator, please don’t forget that ❤️
xx Eva