Three Green Flags In a Budding Relationship
A lot of the time we women talk about red flags and how to catch the red flags early in dating.
And as much as this is important - many, many women tend to be so focused on what is wrong, watching out for threats, feeling anxious or fearful - that they forget completely to watch out for the good stuff!
Telling someone to look for red flags can be like telling them to get even more anxious…this is not Feminine Energy…
If looking for Red Flags is making you feel bad - it can be useful to instead watch out for and catch the green flags in the man your with!
This may seem like a very subtle difference- red or green - but for your brain it can actually make a big difference. We are priming ourselves to look for the good things instead of the bad.
So here are three GREEN flags to look out for in the men you’re dating!
1. Consistent Communication:
If a man consistently communicates with you, in a timely and respectful manner, this is a green flag.
This means he is neither overwhelming you with phone calls or texts, but also not leaving you wondering where he’s at.
Watch out for consistency over time. Is he checking in daily?- or whatever is is natural style.
Your only “job” in this is to notice how the way he naturally “rolls” feels to you - and respond to his communication, with your softness and warmth. Your feminine energy.
Clear and open communication is so important for building a healthy relationship. If your man is consistently attentive and communicative it is often a sign that he is invested in the relationship - and that he really values your connection, and this may be a Green Flag.
2. Emotional Connection:
If a man is willing to share his inside with you…his thoughts and feelings…. his ambitions and outlook on the future - this is another green flag.
When you’re connected to your own heart, practicing feeling your emotions and consistently expressing them - this will open up a good, masculine energy man. You will feel his heart too.
You will intuitively FEEL that he’s emotionally available. And this is SO important in building deep and meaningful relationships.
If a man is willing to be vulnerable and emotionally connected with you, it may be a sign that he is ready for a committed and fulfilling partnership.
3. Mutual Respect and Support:
If a man respects your boundaries and values your needs and desires, this is definitely a green flag!
And he shows you this by his willingness to compromise when you have different views, his willingness to talk about issues without judging or blaming you, or going on about it forever. He has the capacity not only to hear you - but to listen to your concerns and offer solutions to you.
If he says he wants to support you, and shows with his actions that your goals and dreams are important - this can definitely be a sign that he is invested in your partnership and committed to building a fulfilling future together.
He is showing you that he is ABLE and willing to work on the relationship in order for it to thrive - and this, his ability and commitment to make things work - is a green flag.
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If you are struggling with any of the above - maybe you are unsure what your mans behaviour actually mean - I am here to help. Looking out for the Green Flags has been tremendously helpful not only for me in my marriage, but also for many of my clients.
We focus on building the relationship from a feminine energy perspective, creating a partnership and a juicy passion rather then being a victim of circumstances.
Feminine Energy dating is about CHOICE. And you, my dear sister, are the CHOOSER not the one to be chosen.
By remaining in your feminine energy and OBSERVE what is going on you will see what feels good to you or not. You will be able to catch those Green Flags and build on them - rather than being hooked on the red flags - the things that are not working.
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