Five Ways To Make Him Fall In Love With Your Feminine Confidence
Men love women who are confident.
However - they don’t fall in love with women who are confident in that competing, masculine way.
They may love to spend time with you - as a friend. They may enjoy your company and some may feel great letting you DO for them and show you how great you are…
The sad part is that this wont get us closer to the tender love & romance we want with a man.
What gets his heart to really melt is a woman who’s Confidently Feminine.
This means that her confidence is on the inside, rather than built on the outside.
We express outside, masculine confidence when we’re confident in what we DO - instead of being confident in who we ARE.
Outside confidence in a woman can look compelling. But without the inside strength, it won't take us to where we want to be in our love lifes….
Believe me, I’ve tried to perform to achieve love, and it only got me heart broken, every single time!
If this is you I want you to know that it’s very normal & natural to want to “earn” love.
Especially if you - throughout life from early childhood - have been trained to take action, if you’ve been celebrated for your achievements and perhaps only got attention as a child for what you did or how well you did in school or sports.
Yet we need more than this….
What changed the game for me and for the women I coach - is to finally understand that in order for them to have a healthy, loving, secure relationship they need to work on their INSIDE confidence.
Their Feminine Energy Confidence.
So - here are FIVE ways you can start to embody more of that Feminine Energy confidence that draws a man closer and make him fall in love - today!
Work on setting your boundaries right. This means to discover what you want to say yes or no to in your life - and stand by your choices. If we’re constantly violating our own boundaries and let people treat us poorly - not only will we feel bad about ourselves, our perception of what is right or wrong gets distorted. Good men respect your boundaries. This is KEY in signalling to him that you are a woman worth pursuing.
Build Trust. This means first and foremost to build trust within yourself. Trusting your feelings. Trusting your intuition. Trusting your own decisions, by not letting anxiety & rumination take over. When you learn how to incorporate more of your feeling, feminine energy into your decisions and into your life, your ability to trust yourself will grow. You’ll allow your feelings to guide you, at least a little bit.
Develop your love of self. If Masculine confidence is what we do and Feminine confidence is confidence in who we are - this means that we need to work on loving & accepting ourselves just as we are. This starts with compassion for where we are right now, and compassion for the struggle we may experiencing trying to get where we want to be….In the surrender to our situation, while yet taking the steps to grow and move gently towards the place we want to be, we slowly start to give ourselves a little bit of that unconditional love that is SO important for a man to see. He needs to know that you can love YOU, in order to believe that you can also love him.
Self Care. When you truly care for yourself, this shows in your actions. This could be how you treat your body - are you making your dentist appointments, are you feeding your body excellent food, are you getting enough sleep & exercise, do you value your spiritual time, do you allow yourself to rest when you need, do you care to dress well & show up as your best self? Are you putting into routine things that are serving you? Are you putting things that bring you joy on your “to-do” list?
Learn to understand, accept and express your feelings in a way that is signalling that you have emotional capability. A Confidently Feminine woman won’t create drama. Instead she knows how to process & love her emotions so that a man feels inspired to give her what she needs in terms of emotional validation, support and cherishment.
What resonates the most to you? please share in a comment.
Most of us need help to understand, accept and learn how to use emotions in a way that will build heart-to-heart connection.
If you’re not yet 100% sure about exactly HOW to do this - then please click the button and download the emotional processing worksheet. This will give you a simple, proven method to get you started on your heart connection journey - and really put those five steps above into practice.
Love, Eva