What To DO When He Says He Needs Space
If a man says “I need space” then
- believe him.
This is NOT your invitation to go after him or “try to talk it out”.
If you do that you’re chasing him. And this is something that puts almost any man off…
I know it’s hard to believe that doing NOTHING is the solution… especially if you’ve been with someone for a long time
But the truth is:
If a man asks for space…what we need to do is RESPECT that.
Yet I won't pretend that this is easy.
For many of us it can be extremely difficult to be with the emotional turmoil, that may come up when a man asks for space (or in any other way communicates that he’s not available to talk or be with us).
This is why there are TWO things you need in this moment:
Knowing your worth & that waiting for him will damage both you and the relationship even more
Processing your OWN emotions will be key if you want to reconnect with him in a healthy way and INSPIRE him to love you!
Instead of waiting I always suggest dating.
If you’re in a committed relationship this means dating yourself and practising being in your beautiful, loving feminine energy while he’s taking the space he needs to process HIS side of things.
When you do this, and at the same time process and love the roller coaster emotions so that you find yourself at ease EVEN in a moment when he’s asking for space - you’ll be able to actually GIVE HIM SPACE to want to come back.
That’s when everything will change…This will make you different from the majority of women…
When you practice only these two things - you’ll start to see yourself in a new light. You start to FEEL more lovable and you become CONFIDENTLY FEMININE.
And being Confidently Feminine is what is ultimately drawing a masculine man towards you. Not only A man - but the absolute right man for YOU.
The man who’s going to make you happy and feel both secure & thrilled in your relationship.
Eva x