Feminine Energy?
When I first heard of feminine energy I wasn't really sure what to think about it. It seemed like one of these invented pseudo sciences, created to explain one of life’s deepest mysteries in a simplified way…
But somehow it caught my interest, and the more I dived into the subject, the more compelling I found it. And as I am all for empirical studies on myself, of course I tried out all kinds of exercises to see if there actually was a difference between these “energies” inside of me.
At first I didn't believe that such small shifts in my “energy” would make such a huge difference in my experience of life and especially with a man. But as I got more and more practice, the more amazed I grew.
Coming from a scientific background in engineering, I know a bit about energy systems. For example, that the energy of any system always remains constant. Energy only changes from one form to another.
This is the same when it comes to feminine and masculine energy within you. The vital energy of the life force that you have within you is constant, and there is always an equilibrium that is normal for you.
This equilibrium gives you the set point for you, your normal level of activity. So when you go from your equilibrium and get more of one kind of energy, the other energy level will naturally get lower.
Look at it as a scale from 1 to 100 - if your normal set point is 50-50 and you're forced to be in your masculine energy most of the time the balance will be disturbed. You will only have 10% feminine energy left and this will typically not feel good.
Your body will in all kinds of ways try to get you back to your equilibrium. It could be by bringing on colds, diseases, stress syndromes, or you will find yourself want to eat, drink or smoke….only to get out of the disturbing imbalance.
This is the same if we consider you and a man as a system. For your energies in this system to remain constant, he will naturally be in his feminine energy when you're in your masculine energy.
That said, if you want to be with a masculine man, who is demonstrating masculine energy behavior, you will have to be in your feminine energy.
So what does masculine energy behavior look like?
It looks like:
- giving things to you ‘
-making you favors
- wanting to help you
- planning things
- being logical and analyzing things
- helping you to solve problems
- building things for you
- generally taking action
- leaning in towards you
- initiating texts, phone calls, conversations and physical intimacy
- and moving towards you.
Is this what you want from a man?
Then you have to be in your feminine energy to be able to receive it.
Feminine energy behavior looks like:
being open and vulnerable
letting others take lead
allowing and accepting
receiving and saying thank you
being in your heart i.e. your feelings
feeling your emotions and sensations
being present in your body
being creative
being process oriented, allowing Flow
using intuition
being social and communicative
So which behaviors appeals most to you?
Do you want to be the giver or the receiver?
Do you want to be the one thinking and planning or the one following and allowing?
Most women I talk to, and most of my clients are women who really are Feminine Essence women inside.
This means that they have both a sexual and an emotional Feminine Essence, i.e. they want to be the Receiving part in the relationship, with all what that means in form of vulnerability, emotions, communication and letting go.
They have a natural equilibrium which have been distorted, by many years of training in masculine energy. They have forgotten what its like to just BE. To be valuable just because they are women.
This was also me, before I started my True Feminine Essence journey. And it continues, and will continue probably for a life time. It is a work…a deep spiritual thing, for those who want that. And yet, it can be quite superficial and method like too, for women who rather just want a quick “result”.
BECAUSE it doesn´t take much to get a completely new experience just by being in your Feminine Energy, if only for 10 seconds!
When I first tried some Feminine Energy tools, I had amazing experiences right away! Suddenly the men I was talking to paid me attention. Suddenly these men moved closer.
Suddenly they were interested in what I had to say.
Suddenly they became a lot kinder.
Suddenly they wanted to help me and they became frustrated when they couldn't help me.
It was an amazing experience!
I couldn't believe that such a small shift could make such a big difference. And not only with men, with women, kids and animals too!
The reason behind this is that when you connect with your True Feminine Essence, you connect with your heart, and with your inner love. Anyone will be drawn to someone who is radiating love…
I feel so very grateful to have these experiences and be able to help more and more women to get back to their true nature.
If you want to know more about this process and how you can start having more Feminine Energy behaviors in your life, or restore your natural Energy Equilibrium - please just fill in the form below. I would be SO happy to talk to you <3