Are You Accidentally Becoming One Of the GUYS?
Are you a hard working woman and just as smart or even smarter than your male colleagues?
Do you like to hang out with the guys and feel the belonging, like you are one in the pack?
Do you like to talk like a guy? Do you agree to jokes with sexual vibes, irony and sarcasm?
Perhaps you like to compete, in sports and in work or just ANYTHING competitive. Even cardboard games.
You like to win. You like to be admired and respected.
But something in your LOVELIFE feels off. You attract men who look up to you and seek out your advice, but when it comes to helping or caring for you, they are’nt really there.
You long for the joy of being cherished by a man, you long for connection, romance, to be able to FEEL something. But, the men you attract seem to want YOU to cherish them instead!
And if a man you REALLY want suddenly approaches you…you feel all anxious. You try hard to get his approval, and if he takes you to be, it makes you feel like a winner for a moment. You have amazing sex, you wear your rose coloured glasses for a while and you think that maybe you finally you got it....only to later find out that the sex was all he ever wanted….
You don’t understand why everything is so hard. You, who are cute, even beautiful and you know you are sexy enough. You have so many admiring male friends, and you work so hard for love.
And yet you feel so unlucky in love.
Do you relate to any of this?
I know that I relate, because I have been there. In fact I was there for most part of my life until a few years ago.
What is happening is that you are accidentally becoming one of the guys.
I remember many years ago, one of my friends commenting to another about something I was about to do. She said “well you know, it’s just Eva and the other guys”
And I feel ashamed to admit….but at that time I felt proud! She acknowledged me! I was one of the guys woho! I was accepted into the club!
It felt great to hang out with the boys, and be accepted. My only problem was that….love didn’t happen to me. Family and kids didn’t happen to me. Even though I was in a long, committed relationship, I couldn’t FEEL the love. We were like two guy friends doing guys things.
And when I wanted to talk about buying a house, kids, settling down, he just started to pull away. So in the end, it ended.
But this is not how it has to be. You don’t have to be one of the guys!
Not in your career, in your sport or in your relationship!
I had to get as deep down into “love despair” that you could possibly go, before I finally got that THIS IS NOT WORKING. But since you are HERE, this doesn’t have to happen to you!
I can help you avoid being one of the guys, and instead help you get into your beautiful, lovely sensual feminine. To find YOUR True Feminine Essence.
I know that I can help you, because I was able to change my whole life by getting out of “guy mode” and instead drop into my feminine.
When I was there, so deep in despair, I surrendered EVERYTHING. I accepted that I may not have love the way I wanted. I started to accept my vulnerability. I started to SHARE my vulnerability. I gave up trying to be a fun, joking, social, nurturing, wonderdful person who can hang out with guys…. I retreated into what was more ME.
I realised that I was all masculine energy. So I started to read everything I possibly could about feminine energy!
And most of all I realised that even if it is scary to take the armour off…it can become so immensely heavy to wear it, that you become exhausted in life instead by wearing your armour so tight all the time.
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If you suspect that you too are accidentally are becoming one of the guys…know this.
You can easily, with seemingly NO effort, turn yourself back into your beautiful feminine. You can turn yourself back into the powerful, yet sensual woman you truly are, with the help of Feminine Energy Tools, Feminine Energy Meditations and with the help of a COACH!
You are fully allowed to be a GIRL in every situation in your life!
Even at a board meeting. Even when you are traveling for work. And ESPECIALLY when you are with a man, with whom you have a romantic interest.
so next time you find yourself feeling like one of the guys…or feeling yourself wanting to be in charge…to have respect or any of the other guy things, try this TOOL instead:
Stop yourself from wanting to do anything and get really still.
Lean back in your chair (of if you are standing, straighten your shoulders and tip a little backwards).
imagine that your heart area is really soft, and that from your heart, on your chest grows a beautiful vulnerable litte daisy
See how this flower is so soft, so fragile and yet how it radiates beauty, vulnerability, happiness.
imagine how you with every breath , are nurturing this little flower.
Imagine that you have to move slowly not to hurt it, not to blow it off your heart.
And imagine that you HAVE to show it to everyone, so let your chest open and shine.
How do you feel when you let your heart area be seen?
This is just ONE of many, many Feminine Energy Tools that I have in my “toolbox”, ready to share with you <3
let me know how this lands for you, precious.
Lots of love,
Eva